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Finding our way
1 Samuel 3:1-10
Sometimes we can hear a young person say: “I want to know what God wants me to do with my life. Although I’ve been thinking about this for a long time now, I haven’t found any answer.” How wonderful when someone has this question: let them not think of it as a problem! So many people go straight through school, look for a job, “settle down” in some way or other, and only much later in their life have this question, or even hardly think about it their whole life through. To have this question, even if it is uncomfortable, is a gift from God. But what should one say to the person who asks: “I have some plans, but how can I know whether that is really the way for me to go, the will of God for me, or if it is just something I have thought up myself? How can I tell the difference?”
The call that Samuel hears – he doesn’t realise where it comes from. Very often the call of God in us too, is so discreet that we need the confirmation of others in order to feel sure that we are giving our attention to something real, and not just a figment of our imagination. Samuel has such confirmation in the person of Eli. Eli encourages but does not get in the way. He does not try to explain or to interpose himself as a mediator. He tells Samuel to remain in that place where God is speaking, to pay attention and not to rush away.
When something keeps on coming back, we may need to pay attention. God does not revoke (take back) his call, his promise (Cf. Rm 11:29 – St Paul says it in context of the Jewish people). The paradox is that the question and where it leads us will come from listening carefully to our heart and yet we will never find the answer by being centred on ourselves.